I Am Tired Of Being Lonely And All The Loss - Happy Simelane (Her Majesty)

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  • Опубликовано: 13 апр 2025
  • Loneliness after losing her husband tragically, the sad loss of her beloved brother and sharing her life on TV through The Mommy Club. A heartfelt conversation with businesswoman and TV star, Happy Simelane fondly known as Her Majesty.
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Комментарии • 167

  • @EngineerYourLifePodcast
    @EngineerYourLifePodcast  Месяц назад +33

    Privileged to share yet another positive, growth conversation that aims to empower and holistically improve our mental and emotional well-being.
    You will see Happy Simelane in a different light after this. Learn, love & grow.
    Enjoy the episode & do subscribe ❤️

    • @koketjorkekana5165
      @koketjorkekana5165 Месяц назад +1

      I really enjoyed the interview-it was a great conversation! However, I wanted to share some feedback that might enhance the experience for both your guests and listeners. At times, it feels like you unintentionally diminish your guests' insights by responding with quick affirmations like "yep, yep" or "yeah, yeah." It can come across as dismissive or rushed, which makes the conversation feel a bit less engaging.
      I truly appreciate your work and the platform you provide for meaningful discussions. Just thought this small adjustment could make your interviews even more dynamic and authentic.

  • @virginiaenetshifhini9561
    @virginiaenetshifhini9561 27 дней назад +11

    I can listen to happy the whole time...she is smart and doesn't hide how she feels...
    I felt that when she said she is not yet a billionaire,she doesnt have a husband,she doesnt have a boy friend, raising kids alone as a single mom..much as she has everything in control !! But she accept and owns up her narratives.❤❤❤I love this woman

  • @sibsmabura8935
    @sibsmabura8935 Месяц назад +36

    I love how this young man does interviews, over and above creating a safe space for his guests to speak freely, he does it with grace and dignity. I wish him a very successful career and a healthy life. The stars are watching and you are destined for great things.❤❤

  • @simphiwemabuza3229
    @simphiwemabuza3229 Месяц назад +49

    No one conduct interviews with so much passion like Lungelo ❤, he is able to make every guest comfortable and he listens. Thank you for having Happy, I got to know another side of her that made me fall in love with her more. I wish her healing, she is such a wonderful woman and a great mom.

  • @happysimelane9241
    @happysimelane9241 Месяц назад +299

    Thanks for having me Lungelo ❤

    • @EngineerYourLifePodcast
      @EngineerYourLifePodcast  Месяц назад +14

      Thank you for trusting us with your story. 🙏🏿❤

    • @nontobekomtimkulu2190
      @nontobekomtimkulu2190 Месяц назад +7

      my role Model, the mbhokodwe, the Queen, i love you so much. am actually sitting by my desk at work watching this lovely episode

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 Месяц назад +5

      @@happysimelane9241 you're gracious, I enjoyed the interview. Meeting you for the first time here. All the best👏👏

    • @happysimelane9241
      @happysimelane9241 Месяц назад +2

      @@timbawangu3038thank you ❤

    • @makhosazanasibisi7585
      @makhosazanasibisi7585 Месяц назад +1

      Beautiful soul ❤

  • @AluveJuly
    @AluveJuly Месяц назад +46

    I'd attend every therapy session with Lungelo as a therapist...you have such warmth and you ask questions with lot of empathy.

    • @dorcushatlane9525
      @dorcushatlane9525 Месяц назад +4

      Well said, Lungelo is one of the best interviewers I know. Keep up the good work brother 'L '

    • @EngineerYourLifePodcast
      @EngineerYourLifePodcast  Месяц назад +5

      Thank you, I strive to make my guests feel comfortable and heard 😊❤

    • @LangelihleNgema
      @LangelihleNgema Месяц назад +4

      @@criticallyspeakingThere is nothing wrong with getting inspiration from others,there is nothing new under the sun,You are also copying your Ninja by being a bully!!

    • @Miss_Dee2707
      @Miss_Dee2707 Месяц назад +3

      @@criticallyspeakingyou are definitely Owamie’s fan.There is nothing wrong with him if he copies the host of diary of the CEO.

    • @londiwecelimpilo4068
      @londiwecelimpilo4068 Месяц назад

      ​@@criticallyspeakingU are coping sa sa satan

  • @bemesuelly4895
    @bemesuelly4895 Месяц назад +48

    Lungelo we see you, we see your talent, your intelligence and your ability to ask questions with respect and sympathy. We see others are feeling and intimidated by your presence already. Keep it up don’t allow any destructions

    • @t23663
      @t23663 Месяц назад +10

      I hope he avoids the noise and continues giving us great content.

    • @zinhlesibeko4627
      @zinhlesibeko4627 Месяц назад +4

      She has a draining aura... exhausting at this point

    • @khanyingosi9229
      @khanyingosi9229 27 дней назад

      Distraction like gogo owami 😅😅😅

  • @essynestor4959
    @essynestor4959 Месяц назад +19

    A woman with a golden heart, happy to be part of the franchise owners

  • @simphiwemabelane170
    @simphiwemabelane170 Месяц назад +15

    Situations are seasonal but God is forever... Loved that!

  • @KulaniFaith89
    @KulaniFaith89 Месяц назад +12

    Losing someone by way of suicide is the hardest!!! the journey of grief with no closure is absolutely excruciating 😢😢

  • @MommaBear52
    @MommaBear52 Месяц назад +4

    Pain is not "nice" but that is one way that our body communicates that something wrong has happened and needs fixing.
    People need to understand the impact of their actions in other people's lives. Social media has become a platform that some people use to harm others. So sad to listen to this lady talking about how women attacked her. The world is beautiful yet filthy.
    Thank you for this beautiful interview Lungs. ❤❤❤

  • @timbawangu3038
    @timbawangu3038 Месяц назад +11

    She's been a very gracious guest. I pray for her healing🙏

  • @OnaloMtandeki
    @OnaloMtandeki Месяц назад +6

    One of the best podcasts, thank you for this episode Lungelo. You are amazing at what you do.🙏🙏🙏

  • @Charlotte22434
    @Charlotte22434 Месяц назад +4

    I've learned alot from Her majesty 👑, no matter what the world 🌎 gives you, keep moving.Thank you

  • @zb182
    @zb182 Месяц назад +20

    You have a lot of support Lungelo! Continue doing what you do very well might I add.

  • @nellymathibe2069
    @nellymathibe2069 22 дня назад

    Lungelo is mature and polite. Now I understand engineering your life. He is a healer and manages to ask difficult emotional questions with gentleness. The positive experiences of the interveews are highlighted. Happy lives her truth, and she understands her emotions. She is bold.

  • @captainrobertmarie7611
    @captainrobertmarie7611 Месяц назад +4

    Outstanding interview... She's not only an inspiration to others, but genuine, truthful, strong, and honest... Her frankness and generosity will paved her way with success. She's an amazing, beautiful lady with a blessed soul....

  • @lindiwentombela7412
    @lindiwentombela7412 Месяц назад +11

    I like Happy Simelane❤ she will heal eventually....

  • @nomamsomi2495
    @nomamsomi2495 12 дней назад

    Oh Happy my dear you are the favoured one! We go through depression and anxiety! Lots of chosen one had suicidal thoughts in their life time! Loosing loved ones also part of our souls growth. You are a star seed which is why you through challenges that others won’t survive! You are the light ❤

  • @TheBlaccJew
    @TheBlaccJew Месяц назад +6

    This is THEE most gorgeous Lady on SA TV. It's hard to comprehend she could be lonely. Kings:Stand Up. Awake. Arise & Build with this Queen.

    • @akay8127
      @akay8127 21 день назад +1

      Go to around 53:00 , you will understand why. I agree, she is beautiful and has gone through a lot but modern women standards are ridiculous.

    • @TheBlaccJew
      @TheBlaccJew 20 дней назад

      Eish, im feeling you there. Whereas, when men are attracted to a beautiful woman, it has NOTHING to do with her level. Millionaires can be with a waitress, but with women: their biological interests come with materialistic demands.

  • @Ntombenhle90.
    @Ntombenhle90. Месяц назад +6

    Happy you are inspiration to me as someone who's trying to business world I love you 💕 maam

  • @vincentngobeni3413
    @vincentngobeni3413 28 дней назад

    Brother i appreciate the way you conduct your questioning and you give your guest more time to speak and that makes you special and didn't change that great behavior ❤❤

  • @kgosigadientertainment2220
    @kgosigadientertainment2220 Месяц назад +8

    Thanks Lungelo for this beautiful interview...Happy is so authentic and relatable

  • @childrenofalovingheavenlyf4433
    @childrenofalovingheavenlyf4433 Месяц назад +5

    Happy is such an amazing woman. May God keep blessing her ❤

  • @dinnyscakes1012
    @dinnyscakes1012 22 дня назад

    I love you so much Lungelo, I'm just making sure I watch all your shows. As for Her Majesty, I like how authentic she is. She doesn't hide her character for no one lol👌

  • @thobilembuli8571
    @thobilembuli8571 Месяц назад +13

    Well done Lungelo! The caliber of your guests in unbelievable!

    • @MommaBear52
      @MommaBear52 Месяц назад

      🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯

  • @matebohomabote86
    @matebohomabote86 Месяц назад +2

    Her majesty is such a beautiful lady with a good heart ❤️ loved watching this interview

  • @sunflawa
    @sunflawa Месяц назад +1

    Saw a clip and decided to watch. Don't know this lady but what she says at 51:39 is veeery true

  • @duncantsolo3273
    @duncantsolo3273 Месяц назад

    Lungelo i really love to thank you for this interview 😭😭
    As humans we offen loose ourselves in pain and grief, what happy went through was tough! We live to live on❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pearl3035
    @pearl3035 Месяц назад +1

    Lungelo asks very good relevant questions.. Owami can say what she wants, the story is different when Lungelo does it

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 Месяц назад +33

    Yabona ke manje Lungelo uhamba nayo ipodcast

    • @EngineerYourLifePodcast
      @EngineerYourLifePodcast  Месяц назад +8

      Usho kanje? 😂

    • @thebaddie391
      @thebaddie391 Месяц назад +8

      @EngineerYourLifePodcast hay abakuyeke... at this rate uzothola i award even if we have to give it to you ourselves...

    • @EngineerYourLifePodcast
      @EngineerYourLifePodcast  Месяц назад +3

      @@thebaddie391Really appreciate your kindness. God bless you further ❤

    • @timbawangu3038
      @timbawangu3038 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@thebaddie391😂😂😂Am in🏆

    • @nompumelelonomvula8394
      @nompumelelonomvula8394 Месяц назад +3

      Uyibambe ngeGear lika5 sikuFast lane ke manje ngane zakwethu

  • @deniseshamuyarira9008
    @deniseshamuyarira9008 3 дня назад

    Love the podcast all the way from 🇿🇼. Please Lungelo May you consider putting subtitles too. Love love Happy l watch The Mummy Club❤

  • @judithncube5614
    @judithncube5614 Месяц назад +7

    The more you talk about it happy is the way of healing just take it out but if you keep it inside it will kill you be strong talk about it

  • @Lebogang_Mathe
    @Lebogang_Mathe Месяц назад +4

    Thank you for saying there’s alot of ppl looking up to you cz I’m one of them you are my inspiration ❤ yohh i love her sooo much there’s a video I have with her and everytime I see it, I get inspired to one day have such success

  • @TebogoLloyd
    @TebogoLloyd Месяц назад +10

    Thank you for uploading 📺mr L am watching from vosloo east Rand 🇿🇦🇿🇦#road to 150k subscribers 🎉🎉🎉

  • @nellahm
    @nellahm Месяц назад +2

    Loved, loved watching this interview. "Your dreams are valid" I'm definitely getting myself the book. I love your interviewing style Lunghelo. You do it with so much gracefully ❤

  • @ntombishabangu3979
    @ntombishabangu3979 Месяц назад +3

    Such a beautiful woman ,now I love her more ❤

  • @SheCanSmile
    @SheCanSmile Месяц назад +18

    Most of us are are coping with functional depression.

  • @seforatshabalala7798
    @seforatshabalala7798 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Lungelo for this amazing interview.

  • @bettymarumo5471
    @bettymarumo5471 15 дней назад

    Evening just came across this interview of Happy Semilane seen her at mommy's club. While seeing her first season, I sensed her pain of traumatic childhood especially concerning her mom who is late but never in her life, abandonment issues have plaguing her for long, so maybe she should dig deeper at the spiritual part that her mom ran away from and her also seems have the same spiritual issues which tends to bring problems in her life. There's the reason she was chosen to be the generation curse breaker.

  • @Lungelo911
    @Lungelo911 Месяц назад +12

    Did Lungelo do his research bwfore this episode mara? Why is he asking if these are allegations. Tammy Taylor herself has spoken out about this, these people are scammers. They are using her name illegally.

  • @Ke_Selaelo
    @Ke_Selaelo Месяц назад +1

    My gorgeous friend with the most beautiful heart ❤

  • @thobiledlamini3648
    @thobiledlamini3648 Месяц назад +12

    The way the "how's your heart?" question throws people off LOL

    • @mazwide9400
      @mazwide9400 Месяц назад +8

      Intelligent,people comprehend it instantly.

  • @queensibongile91
    @queensibongile91 Месяц назад

    Situations are temporary and God is forever 😢❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BlessingMabena-bo7ed
    @BlessingMabena-bo7ed Месяц назад +4

    Well done Lungelo you are doing well ❤

  • @ORANGE.E
    @ORANGE.E Месяц назад +3

    She's so Gorgeous! ❤

  • @thabi_a
    @thabi_a Месяц назад +7

    God is forever 🤗🤗

  • @thobekilemhlongo5884
    @thobekilemhlongo5884 Месяц назад +5

    A beautiful interview

  • @neliamagumula2911
    @neliamagumula2911 Месяц назад +3

    Her Majesty! I like.

  • @MunakaKhoza
    @MunakaKhoza Месяц назад +3

    Honestly I'm sorry to bring this here but if this guy didn't reply to Owamie I respect him beyond,such people should be studied hard cause wow the level of not responding is respecting urself if u responded and I'm not aware just continue to rise

  • @nonono-rf7ox
    @nonono-rf7ox Месяц назад +2

    amazing guests and podcast. Keep going brother uhamba wedwa

  • @BlaqpantherMelanistic
    @BlaqpantherMelanistic Месяц назад +4

    Uzoba right maan Happy, one day at a time Sisi…

  • @mnisi_sindile
    @mnisi_sindile Месяц назад +11

    Having listened to how she speaks, I always ask myself what does she do, what line of business is she in, I'd like to see her in her work/business environment...she sounds like she's got alot to heal from and she's running from it

    • @jacquamine
      @jacquamine Месяц назад +2

      Thing is everyone relies on her, so she feels like there is no time for her to be vulnerable.

    • @sheabutterbabyy.931ndlovu2
      @sheabutterbabyy.931ndlovu2 Месяц назад

      She's a tender-preneur i think

  • @AyandaNofumba
    @AyandaNofumba Месяц назад +2

    I enjoyed the interview, Lungelo. Enkosi tata🎉.

  • @tshidisematle3145
    @tshidisematle3145 Месяц назад +4

    Her Majesty ❤❤

  • @lineo5541
    @lineo5541 Месяц назад

    Happy is a gem. ❤

  • @masenthabi8907
    @masenthabi8907 Месяц назад

    Very beautiful and interesting interview, happy big ups sis

  • @Kaingonii131
    @Kaingonii131 Месяц назад +1

    She is so beautiful ❤❤

  • @daidengiso
    @daidengiso Месяц назад +4

    What a beautiful interview❤

  • @mpumymahlangu9903
    @mpumymahlangu9903 Месяц назад +1

    Great interview Lungelo.

  • @QueenB_ZA
    @QueenB_ZA Месяц назад

    Sending you hugs and love Happy ❤

  • @rinnebridget2033
    @rinnebridget2033 Месяц назад +5

    Hermajesty seems to know and understand what is marriage 😊😊

  • @mmathapelokgatliso9012
    @mmathapelokgatliso9012 Месяц назад

    You are great at what you do man.we 🫚 we love you ❤

  • @SbahleNgcobo-m2s
    @SbahleNgcobo-m2s Месяц назад +6

    She wasn't ready to share her story with us maybe one day she will share

  • @paulinalinus5714
    @paulinalinus5714 5 дней назад

    This guy is my soulmate

  • @kabelorampai8044
    @kabelorampai8044 Месяц назад

    I love how she build herself ❤❤❤

  • @nandiphabuqa1293
    @nandiphabuqa1293 Месяц назад

    Thank you Lungelo ❤😊

  • @pheladi6348
    @pheladi6348 Месяц назад +3

    Love her ❤
    What does she do for a living?

  • @Ludo412
    @Ludo412 Месяц назад +2

    Love loves HerMajete🥰

  • @kuhlembedu
    @kuhlembedu Месяц назад +2

    Love this episode ❤

  • @tshepomogobe1529
    @tshepomogobe1529 Месяц назад +1

    A very beautiful woman

  • @MommaBear52
    @MommaBear52 Месяц назад +2

    In Setswana that proverb is "Mmangwana o tshwara thipa ka fo bogaleng" - it speaks in the context of children. Meaning a mother will do anything to protect her offspring. I never knew it to apply to a marriage.

  • @ThabisoRatlou
    @ThabisoRatlou Месяц назад +3

    Mmh... this will be interesting conversation.

  • @soniamooketsi2200
    @soniamooketsi2200 Месяц назад +2

    Amazing interview 🎉❤

  • @masegomore1109
    @masegomore1109 Месяц назад +1

    Nice one 👏🏽

  • @fruitfulgirl
    @fruitfulgirl Месяц назад

    Love her dzownn❤

  • @TinyikoMatjeke
    @TinyikoMatjeke Месяц назад +1

    I love sis happy....

  • @ruthmsebele161
    @ruthmsebele161 Месяц назад +4

    Yoooh i m lost ngiyithola phakathi indaba angazi nokuthi nikhuluma ngani😢😢

  • @nomondeprecious801
    @nomondeprecious801 Месяц назад +1

    Market SA is still there in Braam

  • @bojangmekgwe3205
    @bojangmekgwe3205 Месяц назад

    I watched the documentary about that Timmy Taylor and all the women that were scammed..its true😢

  • @sthobilemaziya6429
    @sthobilemaziya6429 Месяц назад

    Happy 🫂❤

  • @winnerscircle559
    @winnerscircle559 Месяц назад

    Loved this episode

  • @learnwithme322
    @learnwithme322 Месяц назад

    What happened to her husband?

  • @daidengiso
    @daidengiso Месяц назад +9

    “Sonke siyahlanya”😂😂😂

  • @IamhighlyfavouredoftheLord
    @IamhighlyfavouredoftheLord Месяц назад

    They misunderstood what Nozi said she did not leave the marriage the husband left.

  • @mathebesummamopeli101
    @mathebesummamopeli101 Месяц назад +2

    I enjoyed this interview

  • @ThembeLoum-vc1sj
    @ThembeLoum-vc1sj Месяц назад

    Love you work don't mind the abakulwisayo keep on walking 😂😂

  • @OnaloMtandeki
    @OnaloMtandeki Месяц назад +1

    Please invite Celeste Ntuli as a guest 🙏

  • @TheBlaccJew
    @TheBlaccJew Месяц назад +2

    Happy is the 1

  • @Fina-g3n
    @Fina-g3n Месяц назад +2

    Happy,you are looking stunning as always ❤

  • @RefilweTshabalala-d1g
    @RefilweTshabalala-d1g Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @senzelokuhlenkabini6004
    @senzelokuhlenkabini6004 Месяц назад +2

  • @rumbidzaimamhungo4332
    @rumbidzaimamhungo4332 Месяц назад +3

    Yeah l can't date someone who can't do things what k do for myself.really what for

  • @Winterflowers1
    @Winterflowers1 Месяц назад +3

    Weeeh bekayaphi 👀

  • @christophersemenya9890
    @christophersemenya9890 Месяц назад +1

    She nailed it

  • @KgomotsoShibambo-h6g3i
    @KgomotsoShibambo-h6g3i Месяц назад +1

    As for "Old Women"? Really?!

  • @nontokozoguliwe7478
    @nontokozoguliwe7478 Месяц назад

    Not a fan of podcasts, but THIS one😍. Oh my word, talk about subtle counselling sessions🥹, the poignant questions unashamedly facing&acknowledging the root cause(s). Yoh❤

  • @busisiwedhlamini5218
    @busisiwedhlamini5218 Месяц назад

    IPSOS is still exists

  • @gugulethumtumane3165
    @gugulethumtumane3165 Месяц назад

    I think you should work on your interviewing style.

  • @Ronewa-hb2ql
    @Ronewa-hb2ql Месяц назад

    What's wrong with this Tammy Taylor.it is not for the first time i hear someone complains about them loosing thoudands of rands and some heavy court cases.😮